2011年12月29日星期四

2011年总结篇

朋友说:
“说不上好,也说不上坏。”

我说:
“人生那么难,不好不坏就很好了!”


不是吗?人生,哪有那么容易啊?事业、健康、亲人、爱情、友情、前途。。。太多、太多!

这所有的一切,不好也不坏,其实就很不错了。

来到年尾,按照惯例要为过去的一年做个总结,这一年最大的感叹就是,变化

遇到一些人、做了一些决定,生活就起了很大的变化。不管是事业,还是生活圈子,就连生活节奏也变得很不一样,变化停止了吗?还没有,感觉上一切仿佛才刚开始。

老实说,变化,会让人不安,不过还好自己蛮乐天的。觉得,一成不变未必是好的,短暂的不好未必就是不好,短暂的好也未必就是好。

安定的生活让人安心,于此同时也让人安于现状,长远而言未必能够继续前进。改变了的生活,充满变数及未知,每一天、每一个时刻都忐忑与不安,不过,或许如今的敢于突破会为未来创造不同的前景,是好还是坏,真的谁也说不准。

也庆幸,除了乐天,自己还有一些倔强,认为做了的决定,就不要回头、不要后悔,要坚信这个决定必然是对未来有不一样的意义,因此就认真的、用心的去经营自己的每一个决定。

来到了年尾,所有的改变才刚刚开始。有人对自己的决定感到惊讶,有人认为就走一步看一步吧,有人投以关心却不知该如何劝诫的眼光。别担心,一切就靠自己的努力去摸索、去开拓吧!;)

小时候,总希望自己快点长大,因为,年纪小,让太多的事力不从心。一直认为,只要长大,没有什么不能靠自己解决的。大不了苦一些,咬紧牙关,一切都还是会过去的,只要有信念、用自己的努力,一切一定都可以办到,只是不做的问题。

所以,就算遇到了问题,也要提醒自己就去想办法解决吧!或许不容易,可是没什么是不能用自己的能力去处理的。

这一年,换了工作,尝试了一小短时间的电视制作,认识了一群英文圈子的朋友,开始了一些不一样的生活体验。



告别了自己热爱的采访生涯,不再每天背着电脑包包,追着不同的新闻人物,再没日没夜赶稿。也不再与过往的媒体好友们共聚一堂,谈天南、话地北,或者是谁丢了新闻,大家一起同心协力。还有大家一起窝在冷冷的法庭,记录着每一句审讯的苦日子。可是,那真的是好难忘、好想念的日子。或许正因为是那么的刻骨铭心,所以才那么的记忆深刻,也难以释怀吧!:)



踏入新的工作环境,从平面走向有声影的电视,是好大的改变。认识了一群“疯子”,还有一些良师。可能因为工作性质的关系,大家都比较奔放,也比较大情大性,沉默、害羞的我,还真的花了一些时间来适应那不一样的节奏!哈!(应该会被他们海扁)虽然,这段时间真的很短,却感觉像是经历了很多。在人生的路途上,回首看来,或许那就真的是一段短暂的烟火,可是,还真的让自己的人生变得很不一样!;)



认识了一群新朋友,尝试用自己不熟悉的语言和大家沟通。其实,不一样的又何止是语言?因为语言承载了不容的文化,不同的生活习惯。很多时候要适应的还包括那不一样的笑话,不一样的表达方式,不一样的活动模式。比较奔放、比较简单、比较坦率,那是他们的特质。说不上新的朋友比较特别,只是,那是不一样的体验吧!在那同时,也去修补一下自己苍白的英语。



嗯!今年病痛不少,常常肠胃不适,还闹了一阵子的感冒、伤寒。不过,还好来到年尾,身体渐渐复原了。也很庆幸家里老小都健康、快乐!!!:D 而且,小妹毕业了!!!;)




过了这一年,就要跨进30大关了。。。不是很想承认,不过,真的不小了啦!

希望,在来临的一年,能够让自己的经济稳定,还清所有的债务,在事业上也能够找到一个定点。:)
希望,身边所有的人都能幸福、快乐、健康!!当然还有自己。。:D

希望,马大辩论队的大大小小、老老少少事业顺风顺水、身体健康、生活顺意、学业进步、一切如意!!!还有,一定要在比赛中夺得佳绩!!!:D



最后的最后,一定要恭喜好姐姐念群结婚了!:D 希望这未来的一路上,都是幸福及美满的!!!:D

2011年12月16日星期五

生命没有如果-李永业

什么样的一本书,会让人从书架上把它拿下?

封面很好-内容很特别-写得很感人-故事有共鸣-带给人期待~~

我想,这几个因素,都是让我决定把《生命没有如果》买下来的原因。

一位专科医生,从英国回到马来西亚,然后重新生活,再努力去弥补心中一直抹不去的遗憾,努力维系起自己作为东方人的自豪与内涵。文字中,透露着他年轻时的不羁,但是,随着年龄渐长却越来越成熟、懂事,甚至对过去感到遗憾。

其实,很多人都会选择相信自己的人生没有遗憾,因为,遗憾,让人懊恼,让人必须去接受,过去有一些决定是错的。告诉自己,曾经错了,那不是每个人都有勇气作出的判断。

所以,读着那份他对父亲的遗憾时,心里有钦佩、有感动、有共鸣。

很多东方人在崇洋媚外的当儿,他在寻着自己最原始的文化,他用文字来告诉大家说,他多么珍惜身为一个华人的身份,多么不愿意此后就被认定是一个洋人。

我相信每一个民族、每一个国族都有他们的特色与骄傲,但是让人感动的是,愿意去珍惜和在乎本身的原有价值与信仰,去相信守护自己的根,其实是理所当然的。尤其是在与国土分割数十年后,还能保有那份情感,其实,并不容易。

所以,深深被他的文字给触动。。。

还有父亲的那一个片段,可能经历有一些相同,东方人的父亲总是不懂得表达自己,结果,孩子与父亲之间有一道好厚、好厚的围墙。若不小心的在这段相处的岁月还有一些摩擦或是误会,围墙就会更加深厚。但是,哪怕多么的害怕、厌恶还是难过,每一个孩子,始终都会想回到父亲的臂弯,用最亲切的方式和至亲在一起,去感受那份爱。

因为,那份最原始的爱,才是最深厚以及不会变质的。也是因为那份爱,才能够让每个孩子茁壮成长,去用心感受世界,去面对所有的一切。

所以,看到所有关于父亲的描述时,真的、真的很感动!

每本书,都有它本身的价值,这一本书的价值,在于到达心里的深处,在于让人看到一个大孩子的无奈与感伤,即便在人群的顶端、即便一切都那么的卓越,如果最挚爱的、最在乎的不能够握住,其实,拥有了世界,也可能一无所有。。。

人生真的没有如果,读着,让人感受到一些需要被抓住的珍藏、不能被忽略的人生元素,也更懂得去审视自己的人生。

李永业,谢谢您!!!

走过的,没有办法回头;未来的,却还来得及铺上鲜红的玫瑰。。。
至少,在您怀里的孩子们,会是幸福及以您为豪的!!!<3

2011辩论海啸


这张照片很有意义,因为集合了旧日的“对手”,哈!
欣怡宇晖比较难得吧!曾经是多年前的队友,在多年以后再次同队,
那种感觉一定很不一样!!!


虽然,我们没有胜出,
但是,对于我们选出的字,我们还是认为蛮值得自豪的!
感谢玉丽的“”,让这一场辩论变得更有新意!!!哈!



虽然,在台上的时候一直在想,
辩论这回事,应该让年轻的新一代去表演啦!
可是,心里还是认为,总会有那么一天,
我们。。。还是会再同台的,
因为,我们实在。。。。太爱辩论啦!!!


就连那位叫大家不要再讨论辩论的老板娘-碧云
不是也要忙着问究竟辩得怎么样吗?
侯立康先生虽然不要上场,到了Barcode,Jaya One也一样要八场上的情况啊!!!:P


这一次,我们找来了阿管
下一次。。。。我们找FISH啦!
辩论,也是可以很好玩的嘛!!!;)


只要,罗大哥。。。点评留点面子!:P

2011年12月8日星期四

#International Volunteers Week (2-8 Dec): Don’t talk so much-lah

Spot where Snowpiano is in this secondary school photo

Pang Sheue Chyn, fondly known by many people as “Snowpiano” shares her view on volunteerism in an exclusive interview.

Snowpiano / sno-pee-a-no/

Noun: 29-year old female journalist. Studied Science and Technology Management at University Malaya. Worked as an Assistant Editor for Rocket newsletter for 1 year before becoming a journalist with Oriental Daily News for 2 1/2 years.

Verb: Dreams of a world without discrimination, injustice and abuse of power. Dreams of a world with happiness and joy amongst all races in Malaysia. Dreams of a better Malaysia.

Adjective: Reading and writing news on politics ignites the fire in her.

Ka Ea: What got you interested in doing volunteering work?

Snowpiano: I was first exposed to volunteering work after a group of students from the Universiti Teknologi Malaysia (UTM) came to my school in Kulai during the reformasi period. I was in Form Five then.

The UTM students organised an exhibition on various issues that touched on corruption, independence of our judiciary, rising price of petrol, impact of foreign policies on Malaysia, etc. The students stressed that these were important issues that students need to know about and to be honest, many of us were not aware of it.

Some of us were so troubled by these revelations that we wanted to create similar awareness on other youths.

At the World Peace exhibition in Kulai

Ka Ea: So what did you do to create that awareness?

Snowpiano: I got together with a team of 20 to 30 friends from school to organise a similar exhibition but focussing more on world peace at a shopping centre in Kulai. It was really fun and we learned a lot about how to organise exhibition and various issues such as education, international and national politics.

Ka Ea: D0 you think what you did have an impact at all?

Snowpiano: I’m not sure whether it was a success and whether we achieved what we set out to do since we were too young to assess such things. (Laughs)

Standing, second from the left.

Ka Ea: I’m really amazed and curious. You were really young. Did your school and parents know about this? Were they not worried about your engagement in “political activity” at such a young age?

Snowpiano: We did this on our own initiative. It didn’t involve our school. So, I don’t know what they think about it.

As for my parents, they trusted us and they didn’t object to it and to be honest, they thought it was a school project inspired by a group of university students. So what harm could it do? It was part of learning.

Many of my friends who participated in this activity went on to become politicians, government officials, teachers, NGO workers and journalists. So, I think we turned out not too bad! (Laughs)

Ka Ea: What drives you? Do you choose the type of cause you volunteer for?

Snowpiano: Any issues that affect Malaysians and Malaysia in general, interest me. So, I don’t really pick and choose a cause.

Once, my friends and I organised a camping retreat for drop-out students living in remote villages. Our objective was to create awareness on the importance of education. Education, not just from a classroom perspective. We wanted to impart on these students that even if they were not interested in their studies, they must find other meaningful ways of living their lives. You see, we were saddened by how many of them resorted to gangsterism after they dropped out from schools. We had workshop and counselling sessions with the students and hoped that these would help them to gain some perspectives in life.

I’m still in touch with some of them and am very happy to know that many of them have gone on to become responsible citizens. These are some of the things which drive me to do volunteering work.

Ka Ea: That’s amazing work. How did you mobilise all these youths? And did it cost you a lot to organise these activities?

Snowpiano: We spoke to [the] village heads and some school teachers and asked them for their help to identify the youths.

We also did fundraising on the streets. To be honest, it didn’t cost much. All of us also contributed some [money] from our own pockets. Seriously, people often think it costs a lot to organise activities but if you’re resourceful enough and keep the cost down to what’s necessary, it really doesn’t cost much.

Ka Ea: So, what happened to the “project”? Was there any continuity?

Snowpiano: It’s unfortunate. We wanted to do more but all my friends left Kulai after we graduated from secondary school. It was difficult to get together and continue [the project].

I’ve learned from this that it is important to build a DIY community, such as the one UndiMsia! is trying to achieve. Those who start a project must make sure that they pass on the knowledge and skills to others.

Sustaining a project is a challenge. It’s a waste to stop a good activity from continuing. [We] need to always nurture new people to take over.

Ka Ea: So, how would you encourage youths to do volunteering work? Many seem to think that they must concentrate on their studies and career first before they have the time to do anything else.

Snowpiano: I believe many people do not see the values of volunteerism. In fact, volunteerism can help youths to learn about many things which are useful to their studies and work. For instance, it really helps you to plan, organise and manage your time and work. These are things you can’t learn from a classroom. It helps you to realise your goal and purpose in life. It helps you to be resourceful and find ways of achieving things.

Finally and I think most importantly, it makes you alive. I notice that volunteers tend to be individuals who have passion for life. They have this spirit in them and I think this is wonderful.

Ka Ea: Yes, yes, it all sounds good but why do you think it’s so hard for many organisations to recruit and mobilise volunteers?

Snowpiano: (Ponders for awhile) Honestly? I think we must do away with traditional methods of recruiting volunteers. NGOs must be more result-orientated like the corporate world. The NGO mentality of skimping on money and time can sometimes be counter-productive. Sometimes, it’s important to spend more money and time to invest on fun and innovative activities that will attract volunteers.

I think sometimes, NGOs need to be a bit more “aggressive” and open-minded in their method of engagement. As long as the purpose is good, the method should not a factor. If [they] need to spend money to achieve results, then I think it’s justified.

Ka Ea: So, do you agree that volunteers should be paid?

Snowpiano: If an organisation can afford it, I don’t see why not. At least an allowance to help them cover some cost. But if someone expects to be paid when you ask for their help, then it’s not called volunteering, is it?

Ka Ea: Any last words?

Snowpiano: Errr…. yes. Let’s face it. Most youths are not interested to do volunteering work. I think there’s no point preaching to them about the benefits [of volunteering]. It’s pointless telling them [that] because they all know there is a shortage of volunteers to help out with so many issues in the world.

I think we need to stop talking so much and just get them to volunteer. Once they see the results of their work, it will encourage them to do more. Once they see how their work are affecting others and that they’re part of something, they will automatically volunteer. They must first see the results for themselves.

Ka Ea: So, basically, you’re saying we should all shut up and just do it?

Snowpiano: (Nods her head enthusiastically) Precisely.

On the stage with her friends at a mall in Kulai